Friendship

Assalamualaikum my dear readers and followers. Today, i would like to write about 'friendship'. well, what is the meaning of friendship?  as we all know, friendship is, a bond with no strings being attached among each other. There is no expectations, just support and care for each other. am i right?  but people nowadays, doesn't value a relationship called friendship. (berbelit2 pulak dahhh...). kannn... sometimes, the person that we trust, actually, cannot be trusted at all. ade laa satu incident terkecil hati between me and one of my close friend. well you know, nobody is perfect right, hal nya kecil je pada awal nye, tp bila dah di cucuk2, ade pulak batu api, hal yg kecil tu jd hal yang besar smpy putus kawan sekejap. kite manusia, tgh marah, diapi2 kan pulak lagi, bertambah laa sakit hati kite kan...then ble da lame2, baru laa i realised, 'friend' yg i percaye, yg i dgr semua omongan palsu nye tu rupe nye cannot be trusted. and my close friend yg i gadoh besar tu actually di pihak yg benar. so suddenly i feel stupid laa kan cuz bulat2 percaya kat orang smpy memusnahkan persahabatan yg da sekian lame terjalin. the stupidest part is, si pembawa mulut ni baru je start rapat2 dgn i, i da percaya kt dia, n gadoh bsr dgn kwn i yg da lame i knl tuh. well, that was the stupidest thing! but now, ble da terlambat, baru laa i tersedar, betapa buta dan kurang bijak nye i sbb percaya kt org yg baru knl. tp i dgn kwn i yg gadoh besar dulu tu da baik dah.. baru laa i thu cerita dr org sekeliling dan bekas kwn baik si pembawa mulut tu tentang perangai dy yg sebenar. dy cerita dkt i, bekas kwn baik dy tu mcm ni, mcm tu, jht ini jht itu, rupa nya semua yg dy cerita tu diri dy yg sebenar. sbb ble dy bercerita, tiada saksi dan bukti, tp bekas kwn baik dy ni bercerita berserta saksi dan bukti. so, klu bwk masuk mahkamah, si pembawa mulut tu ttp kalah kan.. huhu so the conclusion is, do not easily jump to any conclusion. do not easily trust people, lebih2 lagi orang yang you all baru je kenal. skrg ni i da kehilangan lagi 2 orang kawan rapat i sbb kan mulut perempuan tuh... entah fitnah ape dy sebar kan pulak. yela, dulu dy fitnah kwn i, skrg dy fitnah i laa pulak kot. i tak pasti ape kah muslihat dia., mula2 i rasa terkilan bila kehilangan 2 orang sahabat, tapi skrg i rase bersyukur sbb di kurniakan sahabat2 yang jauh lebih baik daripada mereka. lagipun, klu diorang tu btl laa sahabat sejati, diorang takan easily trust other person yg baru je diorang knl tp tak percayakan i.. seriously, i tak pernah kutuk2 belakang diorang. sbb i tak nampak ape yang harus di kutuk sbb diorang baik je dgn i. tp tbe2 jd mcm ni.. so what to do? prinsip hidup i senang je, sekali u ikhlas kawan dgn i, seribu kali i ikhlas nak kawan dgn u dan akan semampu nye buat u happy kwn dgn i, tp klu u ikhlas nak jd musuh i, silakan.. i tak mintak utk bermusuh, dan i pun tak suka nak merayu utk bersahabat. segalanya biar lah ikhlas... i bahagia dgn hidup i yang sekarang.. thank you Nur Suziliana, Nur Ain Nasuha, Nurul Syuhada n Hamizah Hairani sbb ikhlas jd kwn kite, n thnx sbb slalu bg nasihat dan bimbingan, terutamanaya suzy yg dah mcm pensyarah kerohanian peribadi. :p sayang korang... :*

Love,
~iNtAn~